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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1359</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 16:10:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You guys, this is all making me WAY too sad.  You're all so nice you keep making me cry!  I'm going to post something light and insignificant now so we can think about something else.

But thank you all for your kind words.  I really appreciate it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You guys, this is all making me WAY too sad.  You&#8217;re all so nice you keep making me cry!  I&#8217;m going to post something light and insignificant now so we can think about something else.</p>
<p>But thank you all for your kind words.  I really appreciate it.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather Harper</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1358</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 15:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Robin, I'll be thinking of you and Blue.  And crying for you, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Robin, I&#8217;ll be thinking of you and Blue.  And crying for you, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1356</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 15:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Robin, I am so sorry. I had to make this decision less than a year ago for a much loved dog and have had to do it several times for other dogs I've had. Even when you know it is the right thing to do for your Blue, it still somehow seems so wrong. And damn, it hurts. Enjoy your day with him, lots of snuggles and kisses. He knows you will do the right thing for him tomorrow-he's counting on you. I have a magnet on the fridge that says, "May I always be the person my dog thinks I am." Take care of yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Robin, I am so sorry. I had to make this decision less than a year ago for a much loved dog and have had to do it several times for other dogs I&#8217;ve had. Even when you know it is the right thing to do for your Blue, it still somehow seems so wrong. And damn, it hurts. Enjoy your day with him, lots of snuggles and kisses. He knows you will do the right thing for him tomorrow-he&#8217;s counting on you. I have a magnet on the fridge that says, &#8220;May I always be the person my dog thinks I am.&#8221; Take care of yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1355</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 14:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Annette and Lady T.  "The time is right" turns out to be tomorrow morning.  But we'll enjoy today.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Annette and Lady T.  &#8220;The time is right&#8221; turns out to be tomorrow morning.  But we&#8217;ll enjoy today.</p>
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		<title>By: Lady T</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1354</link>
		<dc:creator>Lady T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 14:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry to hear about poor Blue-my mom had to put our cat,Jake,to sleep a few years ago and it really hit us all hard. Mom rescued him from the parking lot at her job when he was a kitten(and named him after one of her bosses,who hates cats).

 My dad did a great painting of Jake,which we still display. We now have Magic,who is my sister's pride and joy(even when he acts up). You'll never be able to replace Blue in your heart but when the time is right,you will be able to let him go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to hear about poor Blue-my mom had to put our cat,Jake,to sleep a few years ago and it really hit us all hard. Mom rescued him from the parking lot at her job when he was a kitten(and named him after one of her bosses,who hates cats).</p>
<p> My dad did a great painting of Jake,which we still display. We now have Magic,who is my sister&#8217;s pride and joy(even when he acts up). You&#8217;ll never be able to replace Blue in your heart but when the time is right,you will be able to let him go.</p>
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		<title>By: annette</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1352</link>
		<dc:creator>annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 03:22:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it's hard to let a dear old friend go--that blue he had a good run. you'll know when the time is right, it just will be, right, for blue too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it&#8217;s hard to let a dear old friend go&#8211;that blue he had a good run. you&#8217;ll know when the time is right, it just will be, right, for blue too.</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1351</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 03:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, guys.  You're very kind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, guys.  You&#8217;re very kind.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1350</link>
		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 02:29:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might notice that I try to help people cope with things through misdirection and taking their mind off the horrible situation.

I truly sympathize.  I still miss my buddy Fletcher.  He was a brother, not a pet.  He certainly considered himself that way.  What's worse was I didn't realize how ill he had become in his later years and couldn't believe how callous my parents were to be "in charge" like that.  My last time seeing him, I certainly understood then.  He desperately wanted to get out of his beanbag chair to see me, but his body just wasn't capable.  It was quite an ordeal for my parents and I.

:(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might notice that I try to help people cope with things through misdirection and taking their mind off the horrible situation.</p>
<p>I truly sympathize.  I still miss my buddy Fletcher.  He was a brother, not a pet.  He certainly considered himself that way.  What&#8217;s worse was I didn&#8217;t realize how ill he had become in his later years and couldn&#8217;t believe how callous my parents were to be &#8220;in charge&#8221; like that.  My last time seeing him, I certainly understood then.  He desperately wanted to get out of his beanbag chair to see me, but his body just wasn&#8217;t capable.  It was quite an ordeal for my parents and I.</p>
<p> <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 01:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, I decided to sit among the unwashed masses today.  I ate at the bar, which is unusual for me. I usually get a table or return to my room with food.  

After a bit, a woman who was rather butch in appearance(bartender called her 'sir' from behind) sat a few seats over.  She told the bartender she was in town for a Border's manager's meeting.

So, now I'm curious, but I hate meeting people.  To put that to a fact, the other day on the plane, the guy sitting across the aisle from me for three hours, flipped open his laptop, opened a word doc that quite clearly said 'Chapter 1' and I said nothing to him.

Anyway, I think I made progress today. It took me fifteen minutes to decide to do it, but I said hi and I broke the ice. I said "Whacha wha, uh, the nuts, do you, uhhhhhh -- Barry Lyga has a book coming out. Huh?"
She responded, "Don't kill me you psychotic worm," and pointed her fruit spear stick thingy from her drink at me
as a means of defense or something like that. 

I am sad to report that she was the inventory manager and she didn't have Barry's name memorized.  Unfortunately, she was too nice to let this one failing make her a bad person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I decided to sit among the unwashed masses today.  I ate at the bar, which is unusual for me. I usually get a table or return to my room with food.  </p>
<p>After a bit, a woman who was rather butch in appearance(bartender called her &#8217;sir&#8217; from behind) sat a few seats over.  She told the bartender she was in town for a Border&#8217;s manager&#8217;s meeting.</p>
<p>So, now I&#8217;m curious, but I hate meeting people.  To put that to a fact, the other day on the plane, the guy sitting across the aisle from me for three hours, flipped open his laptop, opened a word doc that quite clearly said &#8216;Chapter 1&#8242; and I said nothing to him.</p>
<p>Anyway, I think I made progress today. It took me fifteen minutes to decide to do it, but I said hi and I broke the ice. I said &#8220;Whacha wha, uh, the nuts, do you, uhhhhhh &#8212; Barry Lyga has a book coming out. Huh?&#8221;<br />
She responded, &#8220;Don&#8217;t kill me you psychotic worm,&#8221; and pointed her fruit spear stick thingy from her drink at me<br />
as a means of defense or something like that. </p>
<p>I am sad to report that she was the inventory manager and she didn&#8217;t have Barry&#8217;s name memorized.  Unfortunately, she was too nice to let this one failing make her a bad person.</p>
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		<title>By: Lizzie</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/dogs/sometimes-i-dont-want-to-be-in-charge#comment-1348</link>
		<dc:creator>Lizzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2006 01:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin, I'm so sorry  :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin, I&#8217;m so sorry  <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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