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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6765</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 12:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Annette, we're all BFFs here.  Worry not.

Alkelda, thanks, but I think we're going to have to go with Chicago.  Hope you can get a direct flight there.

Liz and Emma, thanks for joining in with your thoughts.  I hope you can both come to a party so we can all be together for just one Saturday night.  (Emma, start buying lottery tickets.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Annette, we&#8217;re all BFFs here.  Worry not.</p>
<p>Alkelda, thanks, but I think we&#8217;re going to have to go with Chicago.  Hope you can get a direct flight there.</p>
<p>Liz and Emma, thanks for joining in with your thoughts.  I hope you can both come to a party so we can all be together for just one Saturday night.  (Emma, start buying lottery tickets.)</p>
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		<title>By: Emmaco</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6762</link>
		<dc:creator>Emmaco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 12:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm coming really late to the conversation - this week has been mad. But it's such a lovely post I wanted to comment too :)

I've met lots of lovely friends through my blog (and before that, an internet mailing list). I've even met up in real life with people here in Australia! And swapped books with them, a great advantage to meeting people online who share your interests. And one of the things I'm looking forward to when I move to the UK is meeting more of my blog friends. And not just because I'll need books to read to replace the ones I'm leaving here. 

I promise that if I (miraculously without a ticket) win the lotto I'll be at your party to catch up with all you US blogging folk.

PS: It's possible I found your blog through the 7-imp interview, too. I think I remember that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m coming really late to the conversation - this week has been mad. But it&#8217;s such a lovely post I wanted to comment too <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve met lots of lovely friends through my blog (and before that, an internet mailing list). I&#8217;ve even met up in real life with people here in Australia! And swapped books with them, a great advantage to meeting people online who share your interests. And one of the things I&#8217;m looking forward to when I move to the UK is meeting more of my blog friends. And not just because I&#8217;ll need books to read to replace the ones I&#8217;m leaving here. </p>
<p>I promise that if I (miraculously without a ticket) win the lotto I&#8217;ll be at your party to catch up with all you US blogging folk.</p>
<p>PS: It&#8217;s possible I found your blog through the 7-imp interview, too. I think I remember that.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz Garton Scanlon</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6760</link>
		<dc:creator>Liz Garton Scanlon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 05:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well this post and these zillions a' comments are just da bomb. I mean, I'm gonna have to link to this bit about friendship and really wanting the happiest of lives for each other. I mean, like, duh, Right??? ONLY, not! Some friendships just seem to be soaking in stuff so bitter that it's almost formaldyhide. This is a beautiful manifesto, Robin, and so is Adrienne's post that you linked to. Yee haw. BFF, Liz :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well this post and these zillions a&#8217; comments are just da bomb. I mean, I&#8217;m gonna have to link to this bit about friendship and really wanting the happiest of lives for each other. I mean, like, duh, Right??? ONLY, not! Some friendships just seem to be soaking in stuff so bitter that it&#8217;s almost formaldyhide. This is a beautiful manifesto, Robin, and so is Adrienne&#8217;s post that you linked to. Yee haw. BFF, Liz <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Alkelda</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6758</link>
		<dc:creator>Alkelda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 04:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin: In Seattle, Fall is quite rainy. However, when it's not rainy, it's all lovely with Fall colors and crisp mountains. We rarely get snow (and when we do, it's a major event in which 4 inches shuts the city down). We're called the Emerald City because we're green, green, green year round.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin: In Seattle, Fall is quite rainy. However, when it&#8217;s not rainy, it&#8217;s all lovely with Fall colors and crisp mountains. We rarely get snow (and when we do, it&#8217;s a major event in which 4 inches shuts the city down). We&#8217;re called the Emerald City because we&#8217;re green, green, green year round.</p>
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		<title>By: annette</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6757</link>
		<dc:creator>annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 03:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>m.r., don't you think you might be forgetting someone...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>m.r., don&#8217;t you think you might be forgetting someone&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6756</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 03:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mother Reader, PLEASE be one of my BFFs.  

You would like Patrick a lot.  He will probably be everyone's most BFF.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mother Reader, PLEASE be one of my BFFs.  </p>
<p>You would like Patrick a lot.  He will probably be everyone&#8217;s most BFF.</p>
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		<title>By: MotherReader</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6753</link>
		<dc:creator>MotherReader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 03:11:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All right, we're on comment 39 and no one has mentioned how much they want to be &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt; best friend yet? What's up with that?

Robin, I do feel like you're my new best friend and I look forward to coming here and sharing my nice things I did for myself and seeing what you're up too. It's very cool.

And Eisha and Jules brought us together (and I love them in their own right, mind you) when I saw your best line "now I'm going to have to recut all the paper dolls" on their self interview. 

But just like I don't have one "real-life" best friend, I don't have one blogger best friend. Though I do have some BFF (Blog Friends Forever). 

Kelly is my touchstone on being a reading mom (and we're going to meet in person in two days!). Betsy shares my sense of humor.  Susan and Jen and Little Willow share my sense of community. And there are so many more bloggers that I like and visit and am getting to know. 

Oh, and I think I would really like Patrick. Just from reading his comments I'll say that. Just putting it out there. 'Cause that's how I roll.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All right, we&#8217;re on comment 39 and no one has mentioned how much they want to be <em>my</em> best friend yet? What&#8217;s up with that?</p>
<p>Robin, I do feel like you&#8217;re my new best friend and I look forward to coming here and sharing my nice things I did for myself and seeing what you&#8217;re up too. It&#8217;s very cool.</p>
<p>And Eisha and Jules brought us together (and I love them in their own right, mind you) when I saw your best line &#8220;now I&#8217;m going to have to recut all the paper dolls&#8221; on their self interview. </p>
<p>But just like I don&#8217;t have one &#8220;real-life&#8221; best friend, I don&#8217;t have one blogger best friend. Though I do have some BFF (Blog Friends Forever). </p>
<p>Kelly is my touchstone on being a reading mom (and we&#8217;re going to meet in person in two days!). Betsy shares my sense of humor.  Susan and Jen and Little Willow share my sense of community. And there are so many more bloggers that I like and visit and am getting to know. </p>
<p>Oh, and I think I would really like Patrick. Just from reading his comments I&#8217;ll say that. Just putting it out there. &#8216;Cause that&#8217;s how I roll.</p>
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		<title>By: eisha</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6751</link>
		<dc:creator>eisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 01:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry I'm late to this. But my corporeal friends all know that I'm late all the time, and generally forgive me, so hopefully my cyber friends will to.

I have also been pleasantly surprised by the warmth and congeniality I've encountered since I started blogging, and amazed at the real connection I feel to people I've never laid eyes on. I wonder if it's a facet of written conversation, like Sara said, where all the small talk we'd go through if we met for the first time in person is stripped away. There's something about writing that makes it easier to be honest and direct. And there are never any awkward pauses or other conversational hitches. And also we're all here because we already have a shared interest - books. So I think it's kind of like we get to skip a lot of the polite BS we do when meeting strangers in person, and skip right to the good stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry I&#8217;m late to this. But my corporeal friends all know that I&#8217;m late all the time, and generally forgive me, so hopefully my cyber friends will to.</p>
<p>I have also been pleasantly surprised by the warmth and congeniality I&#8217;ve encountered since I started blogging, and amazed at the real connection I feel to people I&#8217;ve never laid eyes on. I wonder if it&#8217;s a facet of written conversation, like Sara said, where all the small talk we&#8217;d go through if we met for the first time in person is stripped away. There&#8217;s something about writing that makes it easier to be honest and direct. And there are never any awkward pauses or other conversational hitches. And also we&#8217;re all here because we already have a shared interest - books. So I think it&#8217;s kind of like we get to skip a lot of the polite BS we do when meeting strangers in person, and skip right to the good stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/ill-be-your-best-friend#comment-6735</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 19:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Little Willow, I'm with you.

Heather, start with "a" for annette, because she obviously needs a sensible friend like you.  Then add on the rest of us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Little Willow, I&#8217;m with you.</p>
<p>Heather, start with &#8220;a&#8221; for annette, because she obviously needs a sensible friend like you.  Then add on the rest of us.</p>
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		<title>By: annette</title>
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		<dc:creator>annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 16:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, that's what i'm talking about with patrick. he's like the lowest maintenance best friend out there--self sevice. he'll probably even send himself a birthday card, so no heavy lifting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, that&#8217;s what i&#8217;m talking about with patrick. he&#8217;s like the lowest maintenance best friend out there&#8211;self sevice. he&#8217;ll probably even send himself a birthday card, so no heavy lifting.</p>
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