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		<title>By: Little Willow</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/life/the-friday-list-nice-things-youve-done-for-yourself-this-week-7#comment-10140</link>
		<dc:creator>Little Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 21:55:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Patrick: More like I'm not feeling well and no one knows what's wrong with me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patrick: More like I&#8217;m not feeling well and no one knows what&#8217;s wrong with me.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 15:14:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Little Willow - Rehearsing symptoms to get your drug of choice?  BRILLIANT!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Little Willow - Rehearsing symptoms to get your drug of choice?  BRILLIANT!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Jone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 14:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Late, seems to be my style recently.  My  nice thing is that I stayed home Monday to take care of me. It was the most fabulous day of the week. Agree about the phone call returns.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Late, seems to be my style recently.  My  nice thing is that I stayed home Monday to take care of me. It was the most fabulous day of the week. Agree about the phone call returns.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen Robinson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen Robinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 06:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chiming in a bit late to say that I also don't like talking on the phone. I would so much rather email, or see people in person. I'm pretty good about ignoring it, but sometimes I still feel guilty. Glad to know that I'm not alone in disliking it. 

Nice things ... I said no to some things this week. And I definitely thought about your battle against "should" this weekend, and used it to help steel myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chiming in a bit late to say that I also don&#8217;t like talking on the phone. I would so much rather email, or see people in person. I&#8217;m pretty good about ignoring it, but sometimes I still feel guilty. Glad to know that I&#8217;m not alone in disliking it. </p>
<p>Nice things &#8230; I said no to some things this week. And I definitely thought about your battle against &#8220;should&#8221; this weekend, and used it to help steel myself.</p>
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		<title>By: Little Willow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Little Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 06:01:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I worked.
I rehearsed.
I went to the doctor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked.<br />
I rehearsed.<br />
I went to the doctor.</p>
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		<title>By: adrienne</title>
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		<dc:creator>adrienne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 14:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm a day late again! Ah, well! 

I don't love talking on the phone, and I'm one of those people who happily ignores it. I am really good at blocking out noise, though; I think it comes of working with children for so long. Of course, one does have to return phone calls. That's important.  

This week, my nice thing is that I decided that I was going to take a couple days off work at the end of the month so I can spend a little more time sitting around the house (ignoring the phone). Just putting in the sheet asking for the time off felt great.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a day late again! Ah, well! </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t love talking on the phone, and I&#8217;m one of those people who happily ignores it. I am really good at blocking out noise, though; I think it comes of working with children for so long. Of course, one does have to return phone calls. That&#8217;s important.  </p>
<p>This week, my nice thing is that I decided that I was going to take a couple days off work at the end of the month so I can spend a little more time sitting around the house (ignoring the phone). Just putting in the sheet asking for the time off felt great.</p>
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		<title>By: Lady-S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lady-S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 09:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just boring this week - took myself off to bed when a cold started feeling like it wanted to turn into something worse. With beta-reading and Christmas knitting rather than comfort reading, but still good. It meant I missed Tuesday Book Club but hadn't much read since last time anyway!

Also on a not-very-interesting health note, got myself to the chiropodist and got insoles made - turns out one leg's significantly longer than the other. I learned that the body protects the lower spine by effectively shortening the longer leg through underpronation which hurts the knee and possibly hip.  I thought that was fascinating, though the insoles feel well weird as I'm getting used to them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just boring this week - took myself off to bed when a cold started feeling like it wanted to turn into something worse. With beta-reading and Christmas knitting rather than comfort reading, but still good. It meant I missed Tuesday Book Club but hadn&#8217;t much read since last time anyway!</p>
<p>Also on a not-very-interesting health note, got myself to the chiropodist and got insoles made - turns out one leg&#8217;s significantly longer than the other. I learned that the body protects the lower spine by effectively shortening the longer leg through underpronation which hurts the knee and possibly hip.  I thought that was fascinating, though the insoles feel well weird as I&#8217;m getting used to them!</p>
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		<title>By: Vivian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vivian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 07:59:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I smiled when I read your post, Robin.  I have my phone turned off whenever I don't want to be distracted.  I have a little light that flashes when I have a message, so it's easy to check.  Then I can return calls at my convenience.

On the converse, I utilize all this technology to forward my phone calls to my cell phone on school days whenever I'm out of the house.  That way, if there is an emergency at the kid's school or something (knock on wood), and the school gets confused on which phone number to call, I get the phone call right away.  No worries.  

Make the phone work for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I smiled when I read your post, Robin.  I have my phone turned off whenever I don&#8217;t want to be distracted.  I have a little light that flashes when I have a message, so it&#8217;s easy to check.  Then I can return calls at my convenience.</p>
<p>On the converse, I utilize all this technology to forward my phone calls to my cell phone on school days whenever I&#8217;m out of the house.  That way, if there is an emergency at the kid&#8217;s school or something (knock on wood), and the school gets confused on which phone number to call, I get the phone call right away.  No worries.  </p>
<p>Make the phone work for you.</p>
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		<title>By: Dylan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dylan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 03:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol no i really should take your advice! It would be so much easier on my mental health... :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol no i really should take your advice! It would be so much easier on my mental health&#8230; <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 02:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Molly, happy for the pizza part, sorry for the crying part.  Hope you won't always associate that with pizza--that would be a crime.

Miri, I love it that you took care of yourself!  I agree with you about the message of illness--the body's last resort to make you pay attention.  Good thing you did.  You'll be spit-spot by next week.

Dylan, I didn't even think about the text message aspect.  Another thing that's so hard to ignore!  But if I can retrain myself, you can, too.  (If you want--if not, enjoy!)

Jules, love your zoo visit!  And way to power through the sing-songey voice--that sort of thing annoys me, too.  Talk to kids like real people, please.

Katie, what an ugly job!  That must have strained your good humor.  Aren't you glad you've moved on from that?  Now you have the glamour writing life, including fabric shopping in the middle of the day.  Sweet!

Sara, I just discovered those honeycrisp apples, too!  They're ginormous, aren't they?  But so incredibly crisp and sweet--delish.  With havarti--you have stolen my heart.

Deborah, how glorious that you're eating out of your own garden.  I love pears on a salad.  Mmm.  Hope you're having fun with your laugh fest!

Katie Sis (ooh, I like that), overcoming writer's block and knocking something off your to-do list--major treat for yourself.  Hurray!

Mother Reader, I would have been shocked to get a call from you at any point in the day, let alone at 6:30.  I forgot you even have my phone number.  Call to chat whenever!  (Well, except before 8:00 in the morning or after 8:00 at night--am I the only one who can't stand hearing the phone ring too early or too late?  My body just isn't ready for it sometimes.)

Kelley, high five on that.  E-mail except for mothers and a few friends.  Nothing against everyone else--just trying to keep the noise to a manageable level.  How sweet that you took a nature stroll with the baby!  Hey, but you'd better be knuckling down and editing your sister's paper now, don't you think?  (Whoops, a "should."  Sorry.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Molly, happy for the pizza part, sorry for the crying part.  Hope you won&#8217;t always associate that with pizza&#8211;that would be a crime.</p>
<p>Miri, I love it that you took care of yourself!  I agree with you about the message of illness&#8211;the body&#8217;s last resort to make you pay attention.  Good thing you did.  You&#8217;ll be spit-spot by next week.</p>
<p>Dylan, I didn&#8217;t even think about the text message aspect.  Another thing that&#8217;s so hard to ignore!  But if I can retrain myself, you can, too.  (If you want&#8211;if not, enjoy!)</p>
<p>Jules, love your zoo visit!  And way to power through the sing-songey voice&#8211;that sort of thing annoys me, too.  Talk to kids like real people, please.</p>
<p>Katie, what an ugly job!  That must have strained your good humor.  Aren&#8217;t you glad you&#8217;ve moved on from that?  Now you have the glamour writing life, including fabric shopping in the middle of the day.  Sweet!</p>
<p>Sara, I just discovered those honeycrisp apples, too!  They&#8217;re ginormous, aren&#8217;t they?  But so incredibly crisp and sweet&#8211;delish.  With havarti&#8211;you have stolen my heart.</p>
<p>Deborah, how glorious that you&#8217;re eating out of your own garden.  I love pears on a salad.  Mmm.  Hope you&#8217;re having fun with your laugh fest!</p>
<p>Katie Sis (ooh, I like that), overcoming writer&#8217;s block and knocking something off your to-do list&#8211;major treat for yourself.  Hurray!</p>
<p>Mother Reader, I would have been shocked to get a call from you at any point in the day, let alone at 6:30.  I forgot you even have my phone number.  Call to chat whenever!  (Well, except before 8:00 in the morning or after 8:00 at night&#8211;am I the only one who can&#8217;t stand hearing the phone ring too early or too late?  My body just isn&#8217;t ready for it sometimes.)</p>
<p>Kelley, high five on that.  E-mail except for mothers and a few friends.  Nothing against everyone else&#8211;just trying to keep the noise to a manageable level.  How sweet that you took a nature stroll with the baby!  Hey, but you&#8217;d better be knuckling down and editing your sister&#8217;s paper now, don&#8217;t you think?  (Whoops, a &#8220;should.&#8221;  Sorry.)</p>
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