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		<title>By: Kelley</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8920</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 19:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, it does. Free advice from a published writer! Nice! (; Seriously, it helps to talk to others about their methods and experiences. Thanks for being so open about yours.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, it does. Free advice from a published writer! Nice! (; Seriously, it helps to talk to others about their methods and experiences. Thanks for being so open about yours.</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8917</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 15:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelley, again it's a matter of preference and what feels right for you, but when I write I do have a target age in mind, since that helps me get into my role-playing and know how I need the characters to talk.  

I don't have a word count in mind.  I just write until the story feels done, then evaluate whether it's too long or needs more meat on its bones.  Again, for me the thing that works is just writing a story for myself all the way through as fast as I can, then worrying about the refinements on the second or third draft.

And yes, an editor will then take the whole work, beat it about the head, and make it so much better than you thought it could be.  But the first step is for you to write the best book you can on your own before sending it to an agent or editor.

Does that help?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelley, again it&#8217;s a matter of preference and what feels right for you, but when I write I do have a target age in mind, since that helps me get into my role-playing and know how I need the characters to talk.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a word count in mind.  I just write until the story feels done, then evaluate whether it&#8217;s too long or needs more meat on its bones.  Again, for me the thing that works is just writing a story for myself all the way through as fast as I can, then worrying about the refinements on the second or third draft.</p>
<p>And yes, an editor will then take the whole work, beat it about the head, and make it so much better than you thought it could be.  But the first step is for you to write the best book you can on your own before sending it to an agent or editor.</p>
<p>Does that help?</p>
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		<title>By: Kelley</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8909</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 11:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice and much appreciated. I'll try to keep these things in mind as I seek to squeeze in time to write. Write for myself first, eh? I do like that, too. It would keep me from being too heavy-handed or micro-managing. I'd been wanting to ask, and I guess this is an okay place, whether you conscientiously aim for a particular age group and whittle your word count, chapter length, etc. for that, or is this something that comes when you begin to market the product and fine-tune in revisions? Does an editor help?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice and much appreciated. I&#8217;ll try to keep these things in mind as I seek to squeeze in time to write. Write for myself first, eh? I do like that, too. It would keep me from being too heavy-handed or micro-managing. I&#8217;d been wanting to ask, and I guess this is an okay place, whether you conscientiously aim for a particular age group and whittle your word count, chapter length, etc. for that, or is this something that comes when you begin to market the product and fine-tune in revisions? Does an editor help?</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8899</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:32:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelley, I'm so glad anything I said in that interview might have helped you.  But let me just remind you and every other writer about this:  YOU get to decide how you want to work.  You decide what feels best on you.

Believe me, I know how easy it is to latch on to someone else's method and think that's the key to everything.  But I can't emphasize this enough:  you, the writer, get to choose for yourself how to do your own work.  Don't let anyone tell you it "must" be done this way or that--poppycock.

On the other hand, I also know how reassuring it is to hear some other writer say he or she does things the way you already want to do them.  Sweet!  Confirmation that you're not crazy/lazy/a guaranteed failure because you don't want to do things the way some other "expert" told you to.

It's taken me a long time to feel comfortable trusting my own rhythms and work style--I still question myself sometimes (am I doing enough?  If it feels fun does that mean I'm doing something wrong?), but I'm trying to stop that.

And so I'd love to save you some of the steps I had to go through:  trust yourself.  Trust that you know how to write your stories.  Then write them for yourself first, for everyone else second.

BJ, definite "heck, yeah" on "On Writing."  So excellent and full of common sense.  Of course, I may just think that because I agree with everything he says.

Sarah, you're welcome, and you deserve it for writing such a fantastic book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelley, I&#8217;m so glad anything I said in that interview might have helped you.  But let me just remind you and every other writer about this:  YOU get to decide how you want to work.  You decide what feels best on you.</p>
<p>Believe me, I know how easy it is to latch on to someone else&#8217;s method and think that&#8217;s the key to everything.  But I can&#8217;t emphasize this enough:  you, the writer, get to choose for yourself how to do your own work.  Don&#8217;t let anyone tell you it &#8220;must&#8221; be done this way or that&#8211;poppycock.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I also know how reassuring it is to hear some other writer say he or she does things the way you already want to do them.  Sweet!  Confirmation that you&#8217;re not crazy/lazy/a guaranteed failure because you don&#8217;t want to do things the way some other &#8220;expert&#8221; told you to.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s taken me a long time to feel comfortable trusting my own rhythms and work style&#8211;I still question myself sometimes (am I doing enough?  If it feels fun does that mean I&#8217;m doing something wrong?), but I&#8217;m trying to stop that.</p>
<p>And so I&#8217;d love to save you some of the steps I had to go through:  trust yourself.  Trust that you know how to write your stories.  Then write them for yourself first, for everyone else second.</p>
<p>BJ, definite &#8220;heck, yeah&#8221; on &#8220;On Writing.&#8221;  So excellent and full of common sense.  Of course, I may just think that because I agree with everything he says.</p>
<p>Sarah, you&#8217;re welcome, and you deserve it for writing such a fantastic book.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelley</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8898</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 01:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He's doing okay. I'll say. (: I've heard of "On Writing" and now, with your recommendation, will put it on my ballooning must-read list. You people and all your books!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He&#8217;s doing okay. I&#8217;ll say. (: I&#8217;ve heard of &#8220;On Writing&#8221; and now, with your recommendation, will put it on my ballooning must-read list. You people and all your books!</p>
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		<title>By: bj, the phantom webdev</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8894</link>
		<dc:creator>bj, the phantom webdev</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 18:44:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats, Robin! On EVERYTHING. I know I'm behind on this blog reading thing, between farm sitting and crazy work hours and being sick . . . something had to give. I'm back though.

What a great thing ETC is! Next book order . . . 

Oh, and Kelley, you should consider reading "On Writing" by none other than Stephen King. He doesn't know where his books are going either, and he's doing okay. Robin, you're in good company.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats, Robin! On EVERYTHING. I know I&#8217;m behind on this blog reading thing, between farm sitting and crazy work hours and being sick . . . something had to give. I&#8217;m back though.</p>
<p>What a great thing ETC is! Next book order . . . </p>
<p>Oh, and Kelley, you should consider reading &#8220;On Writing&#8221; by none other than Stephen King. He doesn&#8217;t know where his books are going either, and he&#8217;s doing okay. Robin, you&#8217;re in good company.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelley</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8886</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 15:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We ordered from amazon just last week (still anxiously awaiting a certain author's book!). Wish I'd known about ETC. Now I do, and from now on we'll order through them. What a fabulous organization.

Robin, in your interview I was interested and pleased to read your strategy for writing, especially that you "much prefer the heat of creation, writing a book straight through to the end so I can know how it turns out (I never ever outline--it would completely ruin a book for me if I knew the ending ahead of time)." I chat every month with a few fellow writers, and they advocate knowing where you're going with a book. Their argument makes sense, but I've never been able to see the end from the beginning. I, too, am insane about revising as I go, so that I have never truly finished any of my fiction. The fact that your method (which seems to be my preference) might just work is refreshing and encouraging!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We ordered from amazon just last week (still anxiously awaiting a certain author&#8217;s book!). Wish I&#8217;d known about ETC. Now I do, and from now on we&#8217;ll order through them. What a fabulous organization.</p>
<p>Robin, in your interview I was interested and pleased to read your strategy for writing, especially that you &#8220;much prefer the heat of creation, writing a book straight through to the end so I can know how it turns out (I never ever outline&#8211;it would completely ruin a book for me if I knew the ending ahead of time).&#8221; I chat every month with a few fellow writers, and they advocate knowing where you&#8217;re going with a book. Their argument makes sense, but I&#8217;ve never been able to see the end from the beginning. I, too, am insane about revising as I go, so that I have never truly finished any of my fiction. The fact that your method (which seems to be my preference) might just work is refreshing and encouraging!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Miller</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8884</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 15:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin, you doll!

(You know why)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin, you doll!</p>
<p>(You know why)</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8875</link>
		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 02:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura, you bet I'll raise a mug to that.  It really is true--100% of the writers who are published never gave up.

Vivian, isn't that website fabulous?  So thorough, so many cookies here, there and everywhere--I totally agree with you.  And thanks for the sweetness about me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura, you bet I&#8217;ll raise a mug to that.  It really is true&#8211;100% of the writers who are published never gave up.</p>
<p>Vivian, isn&#8217;t that website fabulous?  So thorough, so many cookies here, there and everywhere&#8211;I totally agree with you.  And thanks for the sweetness about me!</p>
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		<title>By: Vivian</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/reading/totally-remiss#comment-8873</link>
		<dc:creator>Vivian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 02:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin, This organization really has it going with a great website, all those resources, and the coolest author of the month!  Congrats!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin, This organization really has it going with a great website, all those resources, and the coolest author of the month!  Congrats!</p>
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