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	<title>Comments on: The Friday List (nice things you did for yourself this week)</title>
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		<title>By: kittymama</title>
		<link>http://robinbrande.com/writing/the-friday-list-nice-things-you-did-for-yourself-this-week-19#comment-8679</link>
		<dc:creator>kittymama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Sep 2007 03:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everybody needs a friend who can pick something to say "no" to. Even when you're good at saying it yourself, there are weeks you need to let go of that one more thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everybody needs a friend who can pick something to say &#8220;no&#8221; to. Even when you&#8217;re good at saying it yourself, there are weeks you need to let go of that one more thing.</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 19:50:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fine, Barry.  You're absolutely right--I should always give credit where credit is due.

Everyone, Barry saved my life when I came back from vacation, SO overwhelmed by all the e-mails waiting for me and all the action going on on all my various websites (oh, yes, there are others), and he's the one who suggested I cut out at least one job by taking off the moderator requirement on my blog.  What a breakthrough!  So yes, it was Barry's genius, not mine.  Thank you, Barry.

I hate it when people have to "ahem" me because I haven't been a proper human being.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fine, Barry.  You&#8217;re absolutely right&#8211;I should always give credit where credit is due.</p>
<p>Everyone, Barry saved my life when I came back from vacation, SO overwhelmed by all the e-mails waiting for me and all the action going on on all my various websites (oh, yes, there are others), and he&#8217;s the one who suggested I cut out at least one job by taking off the moderator requirement on my blog.  What a breakthrough!  So yes, it was Barry&#8217;s genius, not mine.  Thank you, Barry.</p>
<p>I hate it when people have to &#8220;ahem&#8221; me because I haven&#8217;t been a proper human being.</p>
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		<title>By: Barry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 18:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@robin "I used to moderate these comments, but I decided you all do fine on your own,"

Ahem!

Yeah, that's ALL that was involved...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@robin &#8220;I used to moderate these comments, but I decided you all do fine on your own,&#8221;</p>
<p>Ahem!</p>
<p>Yeah, that&#8217;s ALL that was involved&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 03:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Annette, I'm the flippin' editor.  I fixed the typo in your comment above.  I used to moderate these comments, but I decided you all do fine on your own, and I didn't want to hold up the discussion, so the downside of that is I'm not fixing spelling anymore, either.  But I still really prefer having the conversation keep going without me having to click you on through--don't you agree?

Judy, good job getting revisions done!  Revisions are so hard!!  But it sounds like you prefer those to the first draft, so maybe you don't suffer over those the way I do.

MotherReader, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH!!  I LOVE it when people actually give themselves over to their vacations!  How wonderful that must have been for you, the husband, the kids.  YAY!!!

Deborah, it was so great to finally be able to meet you in person!  You're so damn cool.  And how sweet about the planters--little details like that can make you smile every day. 

Kelly, I am not satisfied with your report!  You are not allowed to let a whole week go by and only do for others and not for yourself.  Shape up!  You deserve better!  Please don't let another day go by without treating yourself like the queen you are!

Kittymama, nice!  It's so true that getting an upgrade to one part of a room makes you want to redo it all--both the curse and the gift of home improvements.  Good luck finding those chairs!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Annette, I&#8217;m the flippin&#8217; editor.  I fixed the typo in your comment above.  I used to moderate these comments, but I decided you all do fine on your own, and I didn&#8217;t want to hold up the discussion, so the downside of that is I&#8217;m not fixing spelling anymore, either.  But I still really prefer having the conversation keep going without me having to click you on through&#8211;don&#8217;t you agree?</p>
<p>Judy, good job getting revisions done!  Revisions are so hard!!  But it sounds like you prefer those to the first draft, so maybe you don&#8217;t suffer over those the way I do.</p>
<p>MotherReader, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH!!  I LOVE it when people actually give themselves over to their vacations!  How wonderful that must have been for you, the husband, the kids.  YAY!!!</p>
<p>Deborah, it was so great to finally be able to meet you in person!  You&#8217;re so damn cool.  And how sweet about the planters&#8211;little details like that can make you smile every day. </p>
<p>Kelly, I am not satisfied with your report!  You are not allowed to let a whole week go by and only do for others and not for yourself.  Shape up!  You deserve better!  Please don&#8217;t let another day go by without treating yourself like the queen you are!</p>
<p>Kittymama, nice!  It&#8217;s so true that getting an upgrade to one part of a room makes you want to redo it all&#8211;both the curse and the gift of home improvements.  Good luck finding those chairs!</p>
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		<title>By: annette</title>
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		<dc:creator>annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 01:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bj, question--where is the flippin' editor (aka spell checker) on this blog?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bj, question&#8211;where is the flippin&#8217; editor (aka spell checker) on this blog?</p>
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		<title>By: annette</title>
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		<dc:creator>annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 01:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>have to chime in with patrick and deborah, tuesday night, tempe, such a treat. albeit an expensive treat, cuz that's a killer bookstore.

rb, hope you have a totally chillin' weekend, you deserve it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>have to chime in with patrick and deborah, tuesday night, tempe, such a treat. albeit an expensive treat, cuz that&#8217;s a killer bookstore.</p>
<p>rb, hope you have a totally chillin&#8217; weekend, you deserve it.</p>
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		<title>By: Judy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 01:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just got a new book to read...Patrick brought it to me from Arizona, so I am going to go read it now.

AND I got some good revisions done on my WIP...am totally rewriting a whole section of it. AND I am enjoying it...much better than writing it the first time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just got a new book to read&#8230;Patrick brought it to me from Arizona, so I am going to go read it now.</p>
<p>AND I got some good revisions done on my WIP&#8230;am totally rewriting a whole section of it. AND I am enjoying it&#8230;much better than writing it the first time!</p>
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		<title>By: MotherReader</title>
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		<dc:creator>MotherReader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2007 00:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This week me and the fam truly &lt;em&gt;did&lt;/em&gt; Niagara Falls. For most people, it's enough to see the Falls, do the boat ride, and then hit the wax museums Not us. We walked all around the state park, did the boat ride, the movie, the history/geography center, the Niagara Aquarium, and walked up the side of the smallest of the falls and got totally soaked. Oh, and viewed the Falls from the Canadian side. And went to Marineland. So the nice thing I did was give myself totally over to the experience, and it was wonderful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week me and the fam truly <em>did</em> Niagara Falls. For most people, it&#8217;s enough to see the Falls, do the boat ride, and then hit the wax museums Not us. We walked all around the state park, did the boat ride, the movie, the history/geography center, the Niagara Aquarium, and walked up the side of the smallest of the falls and got totally soaked. Oh, and viewed the Falls from the Canadian side. And went to Marineland. So the nice thing I did was give myself totally over to the experience, and it was wonderful.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Aug 2007 19:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got 3 great books signed by 3 terrific authors/people and am deep in one of them. Met in person a bunch of really fun people. Ate the first honeydew melon out of my garden. Rode my horse all morning. Am halfway through my hole in my garden for my new rosebush-digging a big hole is somehow very satisfying. Bought (deeply discounted) a mama and 2 baby piggies outdoor planters and planted parsley in them for my real-life guinea pig and rabbits-these piggy planters are way beyond cute and make me giggle every time I look at them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got 3 great books signed by 3 terrific authors/people and am deep in one of them. Met in person a bunch of really fun people. Ate the first honeydew melon out of my garden. Rode my horse all morning. Am halfway through my hole in my garden for my new rosebush-digging a big hole is somehow very satisfying. Bought (deeply discounted) a mama and 2 baby piggies outdoor planters and planted parsley in them for my real-life guinea pig and rabbits-these piggy planters are way beyond cute and make me giggle every time I look at them.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Aug 2007 19:33:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So cool, Robin!  What a nice thing for a week.

Heather: I'm facing the 2nd generation car thing too.  Luckily my little one is skinny, so he still needs a booster at almost 7 :)  I am dreading the ol' car exchange even though we'll be going from an older Toyota Camry to a new one.  (Yes, we're adventurous folks, can you tell?)

Nice things: Finally sent Robin a check for the conference.  That's the best I can come up this week.  This was the first week of *my* school and I wasn't nice to self at all.  In any way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So cool, Robin!  What a nice thing for a week.</p>
<p>Heather: I&#8217;m facing the 2nd generation car thing too.  Luckily my little one is skinny, so he still needs a booster at almost 7 <img src='http://robinbrande.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I am dreading the ol&#8217; car exchange even though we&#8217;ll be going from an older Toyota Camry to a new one.  (Yes, we&#8217;re adventurous folks, can you tell?)</p>
<p>Nice things: Finally sent Robin a check for the conference.  That&#8217;s the best I can come up this week.  This was the first week of *my* school and I wasn&#8217;t nice to self at all.  In any way.</p>
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