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		<title>By: Bill Coughlan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bill Coughlan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 21:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, so this is going to sound a little odd, but your reference to Starbucks reminded me -- I sprang for not one but &lt;i&gt;two&lt;/i&gt; pumpkin-spice Frappuccinos this week.

It's been a stressful week -- I had a big video presentation due Friday, and as of Thursday morning I &lt;i&gt;still&lt;/i&gt; didn't have the information I needed to finish it. So I figured I deserved it.

(And for the record, the video presentation went off without a hitch. After which I stuck around for a couple of beers at the office happy hour. Which might count as one more good thing I did this week.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, so this is going to sound a little odd, but your reference to Starbucks reminded me &#8212; I sprang for not one but <i>two</i> pumpkin-spice Frappuccinos this week.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been a stressful week &#8212; I had a big video presentation due Friday, and as of Thursday morning I <i>still</i> didn&#8217;t have the information I needed to finish it. So I figured I deserved it.</p>
<p>(And for the record, the video presentation went off without a hitch. After which I stuck around for a couple of beers at the office happy hour. Which might count as one more good thing I did this week.)</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Fitzgerald</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Fitzgerald</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 16:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm...I had a nice slowed-down week overall, but as for something especially nice, I guess I'd say that yesterday when my kids so rudely had only a half day of school, we went to lunch and then to Starbucks to play Yahtzee (pumpkin spice latte!), and then I made them see Hairspray with me even though they didn't want to because I KNEW they'd like it, and they did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm&#8230;I had a nice slowed-down week overall, but as for something especially nice, I guess I&#8217;d say that yesterday when my kids so rudely had only a half day of school, we went to lunch and then to Starbucks to play Yahtzee (pumpkin spice latte!), and then I made them see Hairspray with me even though they didn&#8217;t want to because I KNEW they&#8217;d like it, and they did.</p>
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		<title>By: Lady-S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lady-S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 08:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to go back and check I hadn't missed a post when you apologized for your 'whininess'.  Honestly - would you slap a &lt;i&gt;friend&lt;/i&gt; around (figuratively of course!) for admitting to feeling down occasionally?  Your book is open and honest and look how we all love that!

I've been spending a lot of time this week bolstering my beloved teen's self-esteem (can you guess?) and kind of needed battery-recharging.  Got two lovely comfort reads, had lunch with a friend yesterday, and daughter and I kicked back last night with extra-nice dinner and later watched &lt;i&gt;Gossip Girls&lt;/i&gt; on the new computer.  Just what was needed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to go back and check I hadn&#8217;t missed a post when you apologized for your &#8216;whininess&#8217;.  Honestly - would you slap a <i>friend</i> around (figuratively of course!) for admitting to feeling down occasionally?  Your book is open and honest and look how we all love that!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been spending a lot of time this week bolstering my beloved teen&#8217;s self-esteem (can you guess?) and kind of needed battery-recharging.  Got two lovely comfort reads, had lunch with a friend yesterday, and daughter and I kicked back last night with extra-nice dinner and later watched <i>Gossip Girls</i> on the new computer.  Just what was needed!</p>
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		<title>By: Little Willow</title>
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		<dc:creator>Little Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 06:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I realized that I didn't have to make a decision right away, and I kept my options open.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I realized that I didn&#8217;t have to make a decision right away, and I kept my options open.</p>
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		<title>By: MotherReader</title>
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		<dc:creator>MotherReader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 03:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I forgot to add, that I don't mind you venting here. In fact, I rather like it, because it &lt;em&gt;does&lt;/em&gt; make me feel a connection to your experience. I'll be thinking how unlucky I am in one thing or another, and then I look at my perfect girls and realize how little the other things even mean to me. If you want to whine a bit, that's fine. We're all friends here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I forgot to add, that I don&#8217;t mind you venting here. In fact, I rather like it, because it <em>does</em> make me feel a connection to your experience. I&#8217;ll be thinking how unlucky I am in one thing or another, and then I look at my perfect girls and realize how little the other things even mean to me. If you want to whine a bit, that&#8217;s fine. We&#8217;re all friends here.</p>
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		<title>By: MotherReader</title>
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		<dc:creator>MotherReader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 02:56:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The nice thing I did was read outside for an hour on what will prove to be our last day of summer - on October 10th. I couldn't let sunny and 82 degrees go to waste, even if I had a mountain of work to do inside. Now I'm in fall appropriate long sleeves and jeans, and I'm glad I took the time to breathe in the last warm day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The nice thing I did was read outside for an hour on what will prove to be our last day of summer - on October 10th. I couldn&#8217;t let sunny and 82 degrees go to waste, even if I had a mountain of work to do inside. Now I&#8217;m in fall appropriate long sleeves and jeans, and I&#8217;m glad I took the time to breathe in the last warm day.</p>
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		<title>By: Vivian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vivian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 02:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin,
Um, didn't you forget to mention another good thing?  Like...a birthday?  Hope you had a wonderful, wonderful birthday!

My good to myself thing this week:  I had an amazing visit with my sister. Everything else has been kind of a blur.  

Have a wonderful trip!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin,<br />
Um, didn&#8217;t you forget to mention another good thing?  Like&#8230;a birthday?  Hope you had a wonderful, wonderful birthday!</p>
<p>My good to myself thing this week:  I had an amazing visit with my sister. Everything else has been kind of a blur.  </p>
<p>Have a wonderful trip!</p>
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		<title>By: Jen Robinson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen Robinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 02:03:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm totally having blog spillover into my real life. I was thinking about Adrienne's post when I was at the grocery story, and I bought chocolate chip muffin baking supplies, two bottles of wine, and brownie mix. Not that I'll be using those all today, but I had this "oh, treat yourself well" thing going on that came from her post. Thanks, Adrienne! Oh, and I started reading Extras by Scott Westerfeld, even though I have like 100 other books in my to-read stack, just because I wanted to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m totally having blog spillover into my real life. I was thinking about Adrienne&#8217;s post when I was at the grocery story, and I bought chocolate chip muffin baking supplies, two bottles of wine, and brownie mix. Not that I&#8217;ll be using those all today, but I had this &#8220;oh, treat yourself well&#8221; thing going on that came from her post. Thanks, Adrienne! Oh, and I started reading Extras by Scott Westerfeld, even though I have like 100 other books in my to-read stack, just because I wanted to.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 01:42:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I made zuccini bread and muffins with zuccini from my garden. I also am sick and also decided that today, for once, I will not try to plow my way through whatever UR thing I have and besides baking I didn't do much of anything all afternoon and that is certainly being nice to myself. Of course, in one and half hours I'm on-call for the rest of the night, but I least I gave myself a little time to heal. 
I'm so glad you are enjoying your trip-are you seeing any leaves turn? I went to school in Philly and remember this time of year as pretty darn nice weather wise. Enjoy-it's still 95 here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made zuccini bread and muffins with zuccini from my garden. I also am sick and also decided that today, for once, I will not try to plow my way through whatever UR thing I have and besides baking I didn&#8217;t do much of anything all afternoon and that is certainly being nice to myself. Of course, in one and half hours I&#8217;m on-call for the rest of the night, but I least I gave myself a little time to heal.<br />
I&#8217;m so glad you are enjoying your trip-are you seeing any leaves turn? I went to school in Philly and remember this time of year as pretty darn nice weather wise. Enjoy-it&#8217;s still 95 here.</p>
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		<title>By: Jone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 01:40:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice things list.  I skipped an evening event last night because it was more important to sleep. Last weekend caught up with me yesterday. I even missed Grey's Anatomy, thankfully it is tivoed.
I bought dark chocolate for just me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice things list.  I skipped an evening event last night because it was more important to sleep. Last weekend caught up with me yesterday. I even missed Grey&#8217;s Anatomy, thankfully it is tivoed.<br />
I bought dark chocolate for just me.</p>
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